How do the consecrated persons spend their time? How
much do Religious Institutes worry to organise themselves and to make
the best use of the human resources, which they may take into
consideration to achieve their goals? How much do we try to make sure
that all the members of the religious communities are committed to an
orderly and fruitful work, by paying a careful and wise attention to the
management of the money, which the members gain and spend?
It is not bad if sometimes we take into consideration these
interrogatives, at least because the image people have of consecrated
persons –and of consecrated life in general- is based also on these
concrete and daily aspects.
An atypical "professional" category
It is superfluous to underline that a business
company cannot assimilate a religious community. Business companies aim
at the optimization of the resources to obtain the utmost profit, while
the priority of religious communities is a commitment to favour the
growth of charity and the attention to the spreading of God’s Kingdom.
We cannot compare the timetable of a consecrated person with that of
persons who carry on other professions, except the cases in which the
person has a specified task linked to a particular timetable (for
instance the profession of teaching).
Also from the viewpoint of work, a religious
community is not comparable with a normal family, where it is necessary
that one or more than one member be committed to a work, to the end of
ensuring given incomes and where, sometimes, there is the worry of
losing the job. In fact, the members of a religious community do not
normally experience the worry of not finding a job, and from the economy
viewpoint must not worry about the economic budget, because the
responsibility of a careful economic management is entrusted to others
(the local superior, the general council, etc). Finally, the religious
live differently also the time of retiring, if compared with other
categories of persons, because often, they continue to carry on their
activity even after the retiring age.
We need to organise the time well
The way a consecrated person uses the time depends.
inter alia, on: the personality of the subject (degree of maturity,
values, interest, attitudes….); it depends also on what obedience
proposes to be done; on the degree of acceptance on behalf of the
subject, on the assigned role and the concrete way of fulfilling it, as
well as on the environment in which the subject has to work.
From a psychological viewpoint, the activity carried
on by consecrated persons and the concrete way in which they use their
time daily, have doubtlessly a meaningful relevance for what regards:
- their sense of identity;
- their sense of general comfort/discomfort and, more generally,
their mental health;
- the quality of the contribution they can offer to the group,
therefore the efficiency of the group in achieving the perspectives;
- the level of satisfaction of the group (the orderly and well
motivated contribution of each member helps in creating a positive
group climate, while the disengagement or any lack of clear roles may
threaten the morale of the group, thus creating desegregation and
dissatisfaction);
- the image of religious life offered externally.
We can say that the members of religious communities
use their time well, if this allows the best possible satisfaction of
what each member needs, as well as the best possible achievement of the
apostolic finality that the communities aim at.
With reference to the theme, which we are reflecting
on, we could distinguish between efficient and non-efficient religious
communities (we must define the meaning of the term efficiency that we
use here, by keeping into account our previous observations). An orderly
and fruitful work on behalf of the members characterise the first ones,
such as to allow the achievement of the perspectives, which they aim at.
While this does not happen in the second case.
Now, the question that we ask ourselves is the
following: What is today the situation of the religious communities and,
more generally, of the religious Institutes as far as the use of time is
concerned? What image of efficiency do the religious communities offer
us today?
Between efficiency and confusion
It is easy to realise that a generic type of answer
is practically impossible: perhaps a single Institute may be able
(should be able…) to have some elements that find an answer to these
interrogatives. In general, we can state that the communities where
things function well –namely the efficient communities- resemble one
another and show common aspects, while the non-efficient communities are
different from one another.
In the first ones there is an assimilation of the
charismatic ideal, therefore an emotional identification of the single
members with the group is realised. Consequently, they have a
sufficiently clear and definite project of life. The group explicates
and shares the perspectives, and the roles are clear. For this reason
they know who and what each person must do. Each member gives one’s own
contribute with joy and generosity. The communication processes are such
as to favour a constant monitoring of the general situation, as well as
a free confrontation with the unavoidable problems that they may meet.
If this does not happen, different situations may
arise, which gradually create tensions within the community, putting it
in the condition of not being efficient and of not possessing the human
resources necessary for the achievement of the perspectives. The survey
is varied.
For instance, there may be under-occupied religious
who do not know how to manage their time or are bored in chattering or
in futile, meaningless occupations, with a consequent sense of
frustration and identity problems. Sometimes this depends on an
insufficient way of communitarian planning, or on a scarce attention
paid to the talents and personal characteristics of each member (their
interest and attitudes are not appreciated), or they do not give
significant responsibility to everyone.1
In other cases, we see religious who love a
comfortable ‘bourgeois’ life, with scarce apostolic motivations. They
spend their time in cultivating some personal hobby (reading newspapers,
phone calls…). They create a restricted group of personal relations to
which they dedicate time and particular attentions.
Subjects with a high degree of dynamic commitment are
not missing, but their commitment is markedly individualistic. They
generally have a well definite sector of work and dedicate themselves
passionately to it, however their commitment is ultimately little or not
in agreement with the community. This may cause them to have their own
timetable and habits of life, which at first appear as exceptions to the
rule, but that with the time become consolidated habits, very difficult
to contradict.
Professional state and conflicts
In some cases there are persons who, because of their
choosing an Institute, go to the specialisation required for some
particular sector. Their competence grows with the time and becomes for
them a source of gratification (for instance they as psychologists
constantly required by a growing number of persons, or social assistants
whom many persons in difficulty constantly stand in need of). They
become practically not available for other services within the
community; they may even have the possibility of a certain economic
independence. All this may lead the subject to a confusion of identity
or to the prevalence of its professional identity over the identity
linked to consecration, (the subject psychologically feels first to be a
psychologist, a social assistant or an expert in economy…).
Lastly, there are subjects whom we may define as
misfits, who cannot succeed, -or do not want it- to integrate themselves
in the community dynamism. They are habitually dissatisfied and
critical, for which the superiors are unable to find a role, which they
would accept and carry on with a sense of responsibility and personal
satisfaction. We often may find the motives of this situation in a
non-authentic religious choice or in psychological immaturity.2
When one or more of these situations are verified, we
have communities revealing a high level of conflicts and
dissatisfaction. We have the impression of facing an enormous wastage of
talents and human resources, with the image of a religious life that
suppresses the responsibility of persons. It is difficult to understand
how all this can be reconciled with the example of many fathers and
mothers who face sacrifices to make ends meet and worry in search of and
then in keeping a dignified work.
We must know how to organise our life
The above brief reflections should be sufficient to
draw the attention of Institutes’ responsible persons on the problem of
how their subjects use the time. We can also attempt to propose some
cues of action, through some examples.
- The organisation of life depends on the sense of
life that a person has. It is the theological vision of one’s own
existence that guides us in our choices and, therefore, the lay out of
our days. In this sense, for the consecrated man/woman, the time is
strictly connected with the sense of identity that he/she must have.
This means that the he/she must keep alive in himself/herself the
knowledge of being a person at the service of God’s Kingdom, offered to
God and brethren, animated by the charity of Christ ("chiarita Christi
urget nos"), which St. Paul,3 speaks of.
This is what he/she accepted, one day in public, in front of God and the
Church. This is the fundamental starting point to reason on the use of
time for consecrated persons.
- To exert an attentive discernment of the persons
that reveal an attitude for the consecrated life and to verify if, out
of the examined requirements, there is also the will of working,
commitment, sacrifice and collaboration.
- To define clear projects of communitarian life,
with evident distinction of roles, with assignments of meaningful
responsibilities to individual members, appropriate for adult persons.
- To favour, in each member, the awareness that each
person must live with one’s own work and must feel responsible also for
the economic management of one’s own community and Institute. Each
person must work to have the right of eating: this saying of St. Paul is
valid also for the religious!
- The responsible persons must know how to invest
money wisely for the formation and specialisation of each person. This
may mean, for instance: to foresee the time required to perform a
curriculum of study (sometimes we have the impression that this is not a
problem for a religious institute, as it would be, for instance, for a
family, so that a religious could defer the conclusion of its studies
without any particular worry). Normally, members of Institutes should
not interrupt the time necessary for a given curriculum of study in
order to dedicate themselves to some other assignments, and then
starting again their study after a number of years. If we want a member
to specialise in some discipline or particular sector, we must have
clear in our mind from the very beginning, the purpose for which we feel
that it is opportune to invest money for the given specialisation.
To go beyond oneself
In conclusion, we must be convinced that personal
study is one of the most meaningful and important ways for consecrated
persons to spend their time. Study and apostolic commitment must be ever
more an indivisible binomial, according to St. Augustine.
To foresee adequate times of work and rest, to
educate the members in the use of free time would create problems, at
least in some cases: somebody in the community might spend hours and
hours watching the TV or using the computer …. In every case there are
two dangers that we should avoid: laziness and activism.
Lastly, out of the aspects of the communitarian life,
to which we should pay attention during community meetings, –naturally
besides the quality of liturgy or the observance of vows and the
faithfulness to the charisma- there should be also a commitment to
verify how each member spends its time. The responsible persons should
make clear who has to do something and how to do it; to see whether a
climate of hard work and committed life animates the community or if, on
the contrary, there are persons who stand out for scarce performance.
Which image of consecrated persons could emerge out
of the above considerations? Surely not the image of a busy and frenetic
person, namely, of a well-programmed and unapproachable person because
of its being always busy in many things. It is rather the image of a
tranquil and hard-working person, convinced that we receive life by
going beyond ourselves, rather than by looking at us; by giving up
oneself to others in humility and love … We become rich by going far
from ourselves".5
Aldo Basso
Seminario Arcivescovile
Via Cairoli 20 - 46100 Mantova
1 Erikson states "the mature man
needs that others may need him". When a man has the sensation that it is
indifferent for him to be or not to be, this becomes for him deeply
frustrating.
2 To those who asked him how to
recognise a mature person, Freud stated, that a mature person is one who
knows how "to love and to work". This is a particularly deep answer: it
is the matter of capacity to overcome childish narcissism, in order to
go out of oneself and to invest one’s energies in love for others and in
the work (responsibility) that a person performs, as a concrete modality
of being useful for the world and the surrounding reality.
3 In reality, every Christian must
think of how to make one’s life useful and holy in the eyes of God. He
must be "convinced – as Manzoni states- that life is not destined to be
a burden for many, and a feast for a few people, but that it is for
everybody an investment, which everyone will have to give an account of"
(I Promessi Sposi, cap. XXII).
4 "Otium sanctum quaerit charitas
veritatis, negotium justum suscipit necessitas charitatis" (De
civitate Dei, chapter 19, no, 19). Keeping into consideration the
difficulties, which usually we find when we want to translate his
thought into Italian, we can, more or less translate the sense of St.
Augustine’s deep intuition like this, "The charity of truth needs a time
consecrated to reflection, the urgency of charity shoulders a dutiful
commitment".
5 BENEDICT XVI, address on the
occasion of his visit to the Lutheran Evangelical Church, Rome, on March
14, 2010. We can bring the though of a great Hebrew thinker near the
thought of the Pope, "This is the meaning of our existence: to reconcile
freedom with service, the ephemerons with long-lived, to warp the
temporal threads in the fabric of eternity. The deepest wisdom reachable
by man consists in knowing that his destiny is to help, to serve" (A. J.
HESCHEL, L’uomo non è solo, Rusconi, Milan 1987,292).
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