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The
vocational crisis is also a crisis of communication and of languages, of
symbols and gestures, of words and parables. For too long a time we have
been thinking that the vocational appeal travels almost automatically
through casual mediations, or that it is transmitted through mysterious
ways and it always reaches its destination; or that the action of
educators or vocational animators (from parents to teachers and various
educators up to official vocational animator…) is not that important,
just as if the voice of God who calls were enough, irresistible and
winning.
Unluckily, facts do not
confirm this cheerful presumption and we keep on making vocational
proposals often deserted and snubbed by the youths; or we plan projects
of vocational pastoral actions that, in the best of cases, arouse
interest but not adhesion. Why does this happen?
I think that it is due
to a duplex problem: a problem of content and one of method. It is this
double sense that I would like to face with this short reflection.
Research of sense
I believe that there are
few terms today so much needful of a healthy process of…cleaning as the
term “vocation”. This term straightaway arouses in the collective
imaginary of a person who feels addressed with a certain type of
proposal, a precise and exclusive idea having something to do with
seminaries and their surroundings, priests or sisters, through a hard
and even somehow strange choice.
It is somehow the
original sin of a certain vocational animation, a restrictive animation
that finishes by making a person less capable of proposing the
vocational message and by concretely discouraging the adhesion of the
youths.
We have the interest of
going back to the authentic sense of the concept, since even the
original need of any person is linked to it, in particular the youth and
the very sense of life.
The calling God
and the called man
Vocation means call and
–at psychological level- it goes back to the meaning of one’s own
identity and to the journey to be made by every human being to reach a
substantially positive and stable self perception. In fact, the identity
is constituted by an actual I, namely by what an individual man
is already at the moment of his birth, with his characteristics and
limitations, and by an ideal I, by what he is called to
be, which he is not yet, but which he perceives as his own ideal
project to be realised.
Therefore, evidently the
concept of vocation comes soon to qualify the sense of the I, as its
constitutive element, an I that does not exist in its integrity and
cannot catch its positive reality if not within a relation with someone
(Someone) who calls him. This is what the fact of being called exactly
means: if somebody calls you, it means that you are important for
somebody, that you are precious in his eyes; it means that somebody
cares for you, has preferred you to non-existence and now minds your
future, proposes to you something that has been thought of just for you
and that leads you to the utmost degree of your realisation. Summing up,
vocation means this message of positive reality and dignity: it is good
news that reconciles life with yourself and, before this; it makes you
to discover the presence of Another, One who has written your name on
the palm of his hands.
In other words: the
event of vocation causes us to discover the face of God as that of One
who is the Eternal Caller (or the eternal lover, since he who calls is
one who loves), and man as one who is loved by God from eternity (or
pre-loved, loved first), called to life and to realise a project thought
of by God just for him.
Evidently a talk like
this must be addressed to all men and women, without discrimination: it
is true of every creature, every young person who opens up to life.
However, how is this project going to be realised?
Vocational grammar
of life
The gift reflects the
donor, thus the gift of life from God who calls, “speaks” of God
himself, expresses His loving nature and manifests his style. If God is
love it follows that the life donated to man is a received good that
by its very nature tends to become donated good. This is the sense of
life (but also of death, as extreme fulfilment of the gift of life), and
in every case it tells us that life has its own meaning that comes
directly from the loving project of the Creator, like a rule deeply
written in every human existence, a grammar that every living being
finds carved in his spirit and in his body; this is because it is
logical that the received gift keeps its integral identity of gift and,
therefore, its altruistic charge, that leads by its very nature to
become a donated good. There is no compulsion, of any type at all,
neither moralistic nor perfectionist, in the passage from the received
good to the donated one; it is a natural tension. It signs the passage
from the first phase of existence, as the season of received good (from
birth to adolescence), to the second existential phase (from youth to
old age), in which life becomes a donated good, without anyone feeling
to be a hero. On the contrary, this connection between received and
donated good is merely logical, it could not be different.
Admitted the truth of
what has been said above, the fundamentally vocational sense of human
life becomes evident. If life is the received good that by its very
nature tends to become donated good, life itself is well-lived when a
person freely and responsibly chooses to carry on this passage. Vocation
is precisely this choice, dictated by nature and decided by the
individual. Man can understand that he is free to make the choice he
likes for his future life, but is not equally free to get out of this
vocational logic, from the logic of the gift, because should he get out
of it he would choose his own evil, he would become like a monster,
would like his unhappiness but would be unhappy for ever.
Once again, this
proposal of vocational sense of life would be a “universal” proposal,
addressed to all men and women, and not simply to someone or to a
restricted group or to the best and more available persons. On the
contrary, this vocational message should be part of an essential
catechesis on the elementary sense of human existence, something not
consenting anyone to feel disinterested in or already differently
oriented. At the same time, if this is the true vocational sense of life
or if life is essentially the welcoming of a gift that by its very
nature tends to turn into donated good, vocation will no longer be
something one can have or not: all human beings have a vocation
for the simple fact of being living persons called to live the gift up
to its depth!
A research of
consensus
We are now going to face
the problem of the method, of how to arouse in the youth the interest
for one’s own vocational research to be further concretised in an
existential decision. We have already indicated some attentions, but
there is still a lot to say on this matter that today looks more and
more problematic and whose result is so uncertain as to discourage those
who should work for it. Let me, therefore, propose some of the most
important suggestions.
The convictions of
the vocational animator
First of all a right
attitude of the vocational animator, as well as a clear interpretation
of his role are fundamental. This is not surely a task of leading
vocations to his own Institute, but rather that of helping the youth
to discover the project of God in his life. The finalities of our
vocational animation are evidently not those of own Institutes, but
those of the persons who are looking for what they must do in their
life. To aim purely, and above all, at interests of one part would be a
mercantile vocational animation with usually losing results. It is
logical that all of us today are worried about the life and the works of
our own Congregations, but it is just for this that we need to act with
intelligence and straightforwardness, without shortcuts or without
acting for one’s own interests, but rather working for the general
growth of the universal vocational awareness. If this awareness grows in
the Church and all the persons will be helped to discover their
vocation, we can be sure that vocations of special consecration also
will grow.
If,
on one side, if we say
“no” to the mercantile vocational animator, on the other side we say
“no” also to the fearful, shy, doubtful and…too much educated vocational
animator, who withdraws as soon as the other is not enough interested to
his proposal. He who works in the vocational pastoral programme must
believe…not only in God, but also in the youths; he must be animated by
this important conviction: that there is a plan of God for all and each
person and that all are called to offer the received good, no one is
excluded. He –the animator- is there to promote this awareness and to
see that it may become a choice of life, without giving up ingenuously
before the first apparent negative signal. Otherwise, let him ignore it
without running the risk of becoming a vocational in-animator.
On the other side, the
data of eventual researches show a strong interest for this sense.
According to Garelli’s survey the call to special consecration is not in
crisis at all: 11% of youths confess of having been thinking of it (11
Italian youths out of 100 means almost one million of human beings who
have felt the vocation of being priest, religious or sister); out of
them, always according to the survey, 20% of them have been reflecting
on their vocation for a period of 3 years without any provocation of
help from the various educators (this means 200 thousand youths have
cultivated this idea in a culture that surely does not move towards this
direction).
The steps of vocational
animation
Here also we need the
intelligence capable of putting together spiritual wisdom and
pedagogical ability. The image of a vocational animator that ingenuously
soon reaches the conclusion and speaks of vocation just if there were
only the religious and priestly vocations, with the risk of finishing by
burning one’s own proposal, should by now have completely disappeared.
This is why in the first part of this reflection we have pointed out the
authentic sense of Christian vocation and a genuine vocational animation
should start just from there, from what we have defined as “essential
catechesis on the primary sense of life”. We mean a simple and quickly
intelligible catechesis highlighting the principal points, like a
vocational kerigma, namely a proclamation addressed to all,
without excluding anyone: a vocational sowing reaching
everywhere, just like the Gospel parable. If this intelligent gradual
growth is respected or if certain values are transmitted (like the
link between the received and the donated good) more radical and
explicit proposals can be made with the hope of being listened
and adhered to.
The style of vocational
animation
It is a duplex style:
individual and communitarian. It requires attention paid to the
individual person, patient listening to, journey appropriate for the
youth, consideration of his lived experience, well pondered provocations
and dedicated time. All these attitudes cannot be taken for granted.
They presuppose the presence of an elder brother or sister at the side
of the younger brother/sister, to go together along a tract of the
journey, or to be of help in recognising the voice of God who calls and
waits for a response.
On the other side, the
subject of vocational animation, the one who reminds or arouses
interest, especially if we speak of consecrated vocation, is the
community more than the individual person. A community of
consecrated religious is a better vocational sign than that of the the
individual who lives a specific call of consecration; the fascination
exercised by a fraternity made up of different persons who have not
chosen one another, yet live united in a sharing of material and
spiritual goods, grow together in holiness, each shouldering reciprocal
burdens, limitations and sins, share reciprocally the gift of mercy that
comes from above, together proclaim the Gospel of salvation for all, are
hospitable and welcome everybody to their banquet, their prayer, sharing
the joy of being and working together…, well this type of community of
saints and preachers exercises an enormous vocational fascination on the
youth who, never as today, is in search of vital spaces, where the
relation with the other becomes a way to find again oneself and God,
one’s own call and the eternally calling One.
1 Cf F. GARELLI (a cura di),
Chiamati a scegliere. I giovani italiani di fronte alla vocazione,
Cinisello Balsamo 2006. 59
Amedeo Cencini
Lecturer in the Pontifical Salesian University
Via S. Bakhita, 1 - 37030
Poiano (Verona)
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